Finding new hope every day (2025)

Alumna Johnetta Blakely has hope for her patients, hope for curing cancer and hope for women working in the health care industry.

By Janel Shoun-Smith | 615-966-7078|

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Where others may see despair, Johnetta Blakely (BA ’94) sees hope. And she still sees hope every day even 20 years after taking up her calling to treat cancer patients in Tennessee.

“I don’t know of another place where I could have Jesus sitting next to me all day,” said Blakely, a Nashville oncologist, speaking both metaphorically and literally. She has a small Jesus figurine bobbling on a spring on her desk at Tennessee Oncology. But for her, it is more than a cute knick-knack, she said.

“I don’t know how I tell patients the things I have to tell them, but the words always come to me, and I think that is because of Jesus,” said Blakely, who sees about 15 new patients each week dealing with a cancer diagnosis.

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Blakely discovered her calling through her experiences volunteering to work with cancer patients at Vanderbilt University Medical Center during her days at Lipscomb and in medical school at the University of Tennessee at Memphis. Throughout her work, she saw the same people over and over again. As she saw hope in the patients, she realized she was enjoying the work she had initially thought would be depressing.

Later in medical school, she worked with Dr. Lee Schwartzberg at Memphis’ The West Clinic, a world-class center of excellence for oncology, hematology, radiology and other advanced medical care in West Tennessee, and that experience solidified her path to become an oncologist. Just five years after graduating from Lipscomb, she was one of the leading clinical researchers at The West Clinic, where she focused on treating sarcoma (tumors of the bone and muscles) in adults.

“If you look back just five years, we have come a long way in cancer research and treatment, but there are still many days when I cry with my patients,” she said in 2009, during her time at The West Clinic, treating patients and working to develop and execute clinical trials with other researchers across the nation.

“This is not a job for everybody, but the Lord leads us each to what we are supposed to be doing,” she continued. “I experience hope with the people I work with. I get to celebrate with many of my patients.”

Today, Blakely continues to work with patients as a medical oncologist for Tennessee Oncology, seeing patients in both Nashville and Cookeville, a clinic she established for Tennessee Oncology less than two years ago.

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Tennessee Oncology is the largest private practice oncology group in Tennessee, caring for more than 85% of the cancer patients in the Nashville area and more than 50% of the patients across the state. In 2011, she and her family moved back to Nashville and Blakely joined the practice, which provides cutting edge care to patients where they live statewide and provides a comprehensive approach to care including services such as palliative care, psychology, financial counseling, radiation oncology, nutrition, pharmacy and more.

Blakely worked as an oncologist in Nashville, Clarksville and Springfield before becoming the executive vice president of quality and clinic operations at Tennessee Oncology and opening the Cookeville clinic, established due to community need. She works mostly with breast and lung cancer, but in the more rural area of Cookeville, she is seeing patients with all types of cancer.

Local providers told the practice that some patients in the Cookeville area were waiting up to six weeks to be seen locally prior to the Tennessee Oncology clinic, Blakely said. For some patients coming from low-resource areas, she provides the initial diagnosis, so they don’t have to travel as far to get quicker answers. She sees an outpouring of gratitude from patients who appreciate her providing such crucial care locally.

“I work hard there, but when I drive home that night I feel like I have done something good that day,” she said, especially because not everyone is willing to make the drive to provide care in the areas where it is most needed.

“For someone in a leadership position, it is important to see what it is like in a single doctor clinic and the challenges it brings,” she said.

The opportunity to be a leader came because of the open and inspiring culture at Tennessee Oncology, which has several women at the executive level, said Blakley. While working there she was inspired six years ago to pursue a master’s degree in business, which she uses in her current role overseeing clinic operations, improving systems and ensuring quality.

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Ward Fellow Leah Jacob

As a woman in the health care industry, Blakely has a passion for nurturing female health care providers and leaders.

She has volunteered to mentor a Lipscomb science student through the J.S. Ward Society, an alumni affinity group for those interested in promoting the health sciences to the next generation. She specifically invited her mentee, Leah Jacob, a biochemistry and molecular biology major, to an event highlighting issues concerning women in oncology.

“It bothers me that women seem to think that if they have a family, they can’t be a doctor,” said Blakely. “It’s just not true.”

Blakely has two grown daughters and a spouse, Martin Blakely, who is also a doctor, a pediatric surgeon at Vanderbilt University Medical Center.
Both of her daughters consider their family unit to be “tight-knit,” and both are highly independent, world-savvy individuals due to their upbringing, said Blakely. The three of them would sit at the table and do homework together while Blakely was pursuing her master’s in health management.

Blakely knows working women face hard choices; she herself set aside research in place of strictly seeing patients when moving back to Nashville for the benefit of her family, but “it’s a misconception that if a woman works, she will completely miss the life of her child,” she said.

Finding new hope every day (2025)

FAQs

What to say to someone who has lost hope in life? ›

Here are a few of their very, very good suggestions.
  • You're right, this sucks. ...
  • You don't walk this path alone. ...
  • I believe in you… ...
  • How can I help? ...
  • I'm here if you want to talk (walk, go shopping, get a bit to eat, etc.). ...
  • I know it's hard to see this right now, but it's only temporary…

What to say to someone to give them hope? ›

99 Words Of Encouragement For A Friend Who Needs It
  • The world is better because you are in it.
  • I admire your ability to always… ...
  • Better times are ahead; I can't wait to experience them alongside you.
  • I know you're hurting — and that's valid. ...
  • You may not want to talk much right now, and that's okay.
Aug 12, 2024

How to find hope in life again? ›

If you're having a hard time finding hope, here are some things to keep in mind:
  1. What are you hopeful for? ...
  2. Remind yourself that this isn't forever. ...
  3. Look ahead to post-pandemic times. ...
  4. Control what you can. ...
  5. Turn to faith and spirituality. ...
  6. Combat your negative thoughts. ...
  7. Make time for fun.

How can I have faith when there is no hope? ›

Pray (Build Your Faith)

As a believer, your ultimate hope relies not in the people and circumstances around you, but rather in the God who is above it all. Prayer is one of the most powerful resources we have, yet it's one we tend to ignore. During crises, prayer is vital.

How do you motivate someone who is losing hope? ›

The best things to say:
  1. Nothing. Seriously. Sometimes, just be quiet. ...
  2. “What are you feeling and thinking?” Then listen. Encourage them to talk. Sometimes they discover an answer. ...
  3. “Let me share.” Share a story of when you went through something similar. What did you feel? What did you discover?
Oct 19, 2016

How do you comfort someone who has no hope? ›

Don't say, “You have so much to live for.” Instead, let them talk and ask questions like, “Tell me more.” “How long have you felt this way?” Next step you can try to connect them with resources if possible. Or call someone you know who does know them better.

What is the most comforting word? ›

What do you say to a friend going through a hard time?
  • I am so very sorry for your loss. ...
  • It makes sense to me that you might be feeling really down right now. ...
  • I'll be here for you no matter what your grief looks like.
  • There really are not words big enough to express how much tenderness I have for you right now.
May 26, 2022

How do you give someone hope over text? ›

Examples
  1. “You got this.”
  2. “Good luck today! I know you'll do great.”
  3. “Sending major good vibes your way.”
  4. “I know this won't be easy, but I also know you've got what it takes to get through it.”
  5. “Hope you're doing awesome!”
  6. “God's got this and you, too!”
  7. “Time to go kick cancer's ass!”
  8. “Keep on keeping on!”
Aug 25, 2022

What is a powerful message about hope? ›

We must accept finite disappointment but never lose infinite hope.”– Martin Luther King Jr. “When you are struggling and start thinking about giving up, remember the power of hope.” – Michelle Obama. “Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery.

What causes a person to lose hope? ›

Feeling overwhelmed by challenges in your personal life or the world at large can bring on hope fatigue. Symptoms vary from person to person, but some of the common ones are: Feeling anxious. Ongoing sadness or depression.

What is an example of hope in everyday life? ›

An example would be hoping you can run as fast as your teammate in the next relay race, or hoping that your outfit is as well-tailored as your best friend's.

How do I stop losing hope in life? ›

What Should I Do When I Start Losing Hope?
  1. Remind Yourself of Your Accomplishments. The first thing to do when you start losing hope is to remind yourself of how far you have come. ...
  2. Talk to Your Support Network. ...
  3. Remind Yourself Why You Sought Treatment. ...
  4. Practice Self-Care.
Apr 1, 2023

How does Jesus give me hope? ›

Hope is found in the promises God has given us – promises of freedom from sin. We can find so much hope in Scripture through the gift of eternal life made possible through His son, Jesus Christ. No matter what trials, temptations or pain we may suffer, we can always hold onto the hope God extends to us.

What to do when you have no hope? ›

What to do when you're feeling hopeless: 10 ways to overcome hopelessness
  1. Stay present. ...
  2. Name your feelings. ...
  3. Lean into your friendships and support networks. ...
  4. Practice gratitude. ...
  5. Shift your mental state with movement. ...
  6. Find a seed of hope in a new hobby. ...
  7. Avoid unhelpful triggers. ...
  8. Understand the “why” behind your feelings.
Nov 16, 2023

What to do when all is lost? ›

If You Feel Lost in Life, Be Brutally honest with yourself
  1. Find a career we don't absolutely hate (more on that in a second)
  2. Start taking better care of your body and mind.
  3. Keep the right people in your life.
  4. Stop doing things that make you hate yourself.
  5. Start doing the things you know you're supposed to do.

What to tell someone that has no hope? ›

Show empathy.

Don't try to fix their situation, make them see the bright side of things, or shame them for feeling hopeless. (“But you have so much going for you!”) Instead, start with listening and then let them know you have heard them and understand this is a hard time.

How do you comfort someone who lost something precious? ›

What you can do for a friend or loved one
  1. Don't avoid talking about the loss. It can be helpful to share stories and memories along with feelings.
  2. Check in. Ask them what they need and how they are doing. ...
  3. Get them out of the house. ...
  4. Connect them with help. ...
  5. Take care of yourself too.

How do you uplift someone who lost a loved one? ›

You may offer to bring them meals, run errands, provide a ride somewhere, help with chores, or help with any arrangements. Listen to them: One of the best things you can do to comfort someone who lost a loved one is to be a listening ear. Let them talk about their many feelings and validate what they're going through.

How to encourage someone to have hope? ›

If you want to give hope to others, listen to them. Even if you can't help what they are facing, just listen to them. Give them your time and attention. The fact that you give them your time and attention would make them feel important and hopeful about life.

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